Every Second is a Precious Gift..

I am just very grateful to be given this very second....
just to be able to see, 
just to be able to breathe,
just to be able to walk, 
to hear, to love, to live.

Every second to me is really a precious gift. 

I really do not know how many seconds more I can live on but as long as I am given a second, I will enjoyed and cherished it to the max. You do not realise what you have till you are in jeopardy of losing it. Life marches on. Do not whine because its passing so fast, just be glad to be part of the parade. 

As we move on with our hectic life everyday, we tend to forget to slow down our pace to look around us and cherished every moments of it. Sooner, a second will become a minute, a minute become an hour, and an hour will become a day. If you lucky, you will be able to get the day...what IF the day will never come?

We should live each minute as a life time as we do not know what the next one holds for us or even if we will never see it.

Life is precious and a gift be thankful and make every moment count. 

Are We Meant to Meet the People We Meet?

Are we destined to meet the people we meet? 

Yes.

I know we are.

Every person we meet, we are meant to meet. No matter how long they stay in our lives. 

Every person has something to teach us. Whether they stay for an hour, a day, or 10 years, they are there for the right amount of time. That amount of time is simply how long it takes you to learn the soul lesson. There are 6 billion people in this world, nothing is an accident.

If the experience seems negative, and this certain person really irritates you, or you feel like you cannot connect to someone, that experience presents itself in your journey to give you an opportunity to learn patience, understanding, or perhaps empathy. It gives you an opportunity to see yourself even in someone your ego categorizes as different, less than, or not good.

The people we meet who seem special, with whom we connect instantaneously… they enter into our journey to show us we are on the right path. To show that we are creating a path for ourselves that is true to our being, to our soul, to our creativity… and connecting to people at higher levels proves this. 

If you emit that truthful, soul-driven energy, you will receive those experiences in return. Tenfold. So raise your vibration, be you, and see what you attract!

If you believe that there is meaning behind every interaction in your life, then you will always be kind, patient, loving, and be free of attachment.

Trust that the universe has your best interest in mind, and it will.

We are all the same, truly, at the very core of our being. We are energies, meshing and flowing, and changing continuously. We are all in different places in our journeys. 

The soul’s journey is more than just this lifetime… so let’s all love and let go of judgment. Everything is everything. 

Farewell and Goodbye...

Finally... Like finally, I have left Equatorial after 3 years plus there. After much of dilemma, choices and hardship I have gone through in making this decision on 29th April, it has now finally came to an end. This decision was not an easy one and it took a lot of consideration. Friday, 27th June marked the end of my battleship in Equatorial. It was really a mixed emotions for me. I am happy for that I am leaving for a better opportunity but at the same time I am sad cause leaving behind the memories that I have during my stint in EQ. The person I met, the colleague I have, the laughter I shared, and not to leave behind the path that allowed me to learn and grow in so many ways. 

I will not be able to tell or conclude that I will have a greener pastures in my new working place or not, but at least I am here to say that I for once took up the risk. I always believe that life is full of opportunities. There is no right or wrong choice of path because our decision will only lead us to different opportunities. It doesn't really matter which way we take because we will never know what is going to happen anyway. Just be brave and take on the path we have decided and don’t look back. So don’t regret the decisions we have made, look ahead and embrace the challenges and chances. Different paths may allow us to experience differently, but at the end of the day, we will still have a brilliant life that is unique to us. Never try, never know.

As I move on, I would like to take a moment to remember and cherish the times I had in EQ. It’s been great interacting and knowing each and everyone of them there especially to the Sales Team, the colleague of mine. I had so much of great time and fun working with them. I really thank them from the bottom of my heart for all the experiences I have with them. It was truly a great journey!

Even though I will miss them there but I am looking forward to this new challenge and to start a new phase of my career. 

I shall sorely miss you all; especially the fantastic team, their friendship and support.

I am who I AM!

I am what I am. Love or hate me its still me. Even you give all the kindness to the world. There’s still people who doesn’t like you. Respect it you can’t please everyone, but don’t ever blame them. This is how life goes take it or live it miserably. Life has to go on. At the end of the day there only one who will never leave you. It’s YOURSELF! So Love yourself. 

Do and be what and who makes you happy and be with the person who not only accepts the real you but loves the real you, all the dark and light, the one you don’t have to hide your true self from.

I do love myself, not for who I use to be but for who I am because I am the only one who knows who I am and who I am suppose to be. Do you know yourself? I am pretty sure you will figure out who I am. I’m what I’m and that’s who I need to be, which by the way I’m not that comfortable with yet, but I will be when get to know myself. 

Those who leave me, their loss, I’m everything I hear women say they want. So that’s why I say its their loss. I love extremely strong with all I am, I’m honest & I’m monogamous. Those two go hand & hand. I put them before myself. 

You’ll never please everyone so be yourself. Be the best YOU you can be and be happy with that person.

Life is like a journey on a train..

Life is like a journey on a train..
with its stations...
with changes of routes...
and with accidents!

We board this train when we are born and our parents are the ones who get our ticket.
We believe they will always travel on this train with us.

However, at some station our parents will get off the train, leaving us alone on this journey.
As time goes by, other passengers will board the train, many of whom will be significant - our siblings, friends, children, and even the love of our life. 

Many will get off during the journey and leave a permanent vacuum in our lives. 
Many will go so unnoticed that we won't even know when they vacated their seats and got off the train!

This train ride will be full of joy, sorrow, fantasy, expectations, hellos, good byes, and farewells.
A good journey is helping, loving, having a good relationship with all co passengers...and making sure that we give our best to make their journey comfortable.

The mystery of this fabulous journey is; we do not know at which station we ourselves are going to get off.
So, we must live in the best way - adjust, forget, forgive and offer the best of what we have.

It is important to do this because when the time comes for us to leave our seat... we should leave behind beautiful memories for those who will continue to travel on the train of life.

This is specially dedicated to those that I love in my life...

Thank you for being one of the passengers in my train. 

Thank you for coming into my journey and making my journey a meaningful and beautiful ones.

First Ever Post in year 2014..

The post title say its all. Pretty obvious that I actually neglecting my blog. Not that I have nothing to blog about but I just need a little of writing mood back. Time passed swiftly and not knowing that it has actually been the 3rd month of year 2014. How fast could that be. 

As time passed, I realised that I learnt to appreciate bit and pieces of my life. I did slowed down my pace and start to think back what's quality of life is all about. Sometimes we ought to slow down ourselves and just indulge in the beauty of it. In lieu of that, just working and no play will just make you as dull as ever. Our life is always started with a blank piece of white paper.. Is we who painted colors on it and the choice is always your to do or not to do. 

With that.... me and my friends have a short getaway from the hustle and bustle of working life to the island of pearl. GOD knows how long we have actually known each other. 17 years of friendship and continue to count for many more years to come.  3 days 2 nights road trip ain't gonna be enough for us. Its a short trip but I guess as much as we enjoyed ourselves to the fullest. We barely sleep and all we did was non stop of eating and yacking and talking and laughing and the list continue. 

The last post to end up 2013..

Finally year 2013 has come to an end. The last day of the year. So any New Year's resolutions?
I think I will leave the new year resolutions as it is as nothing I will do to achieve it. Probably it is just a gimmick to me. 

I must however say 2014 gotta be a brand new year to me and I just hope for a better health. My health has been deteriorating from day to day. Nothing is more important to have a healthy body. If you were to have all of the things in the world but you do not have a healthy body to enjoy it, so what is the point of having it. Sometimes, we just ought to slow down our pace and learn to see things in a clearer and bigger view. 

2013 has been a year full of ups and down and a year filled with laughter and tears. Tears part will not want to mention anymore. What's gone let it be gone and be a history. I shall only cherished the memory that is still vividly picture in my mind. 

2013 too has been a year where I focus totally on my career, my job, my work. Nothing else beats the hectic schedule I have throughout the whole years. Rewind back all this, what do I gain at the end of the day? I probably gain little of recognition in the industry, little of experience from the bit and pieces and nothing more than that. At the same time, I have lost the quality of my life, the quality time with my family and friends, and definitely the health of mine. Now you see, its a balance. You gain and you lost. To balance it is never easy but I think this is something that we should learn to have. A balance in life. 

Looking back at all that, I ought to say 2013 has been a great year to me and it shall sail through the year of 2014. Therefore, before we pop the champagne and celebrate the new year, stop and reflect on the year that has gone by. To remember both our triumphs and missteps, our promises made and broken. The times we opened ourselves up to great adventures or closed ourselves down for fear of getting hurt. Because that's what new year is all about - getting another chance. A chance to forgive, to do better, to do more, to give more, to love more. And stop worrying about what if and start embracing what would be. So at midnight, let's remember to be nice to each other, kind to each other. Not just tonight but all year long.

So let us end 2013 with a bang and welcome 2014 with an opened arm. 

** Happy New Year 2014 **