Busy....

I can't explained how much of tired that lies in me. I can't explained and complaint much as this is the path that I have chosen. I ain't complaining but its just too tired already. The busy schedule that runs in me as a hotelier is really unbelievable. People kept asking me why am I that busy and why I am not delegating my time and my job well. The first impression that goes through my mind was you are not me, you are not in my shoes and you wouldn't understand it. 

Sometimes I would love to have my quality time..I do want to spend my time with my family, my beloved ones and friends but there is always a word called LAST MINUTE schedule that kills it all. I don't understand why some clients would choose a weekend or a public holiday for their function or their inspection. I do not work 24/7 days a week... I still have my off day. Because of them, my Sunday is basically killed. 

So now you think my life is easy? Not at all. I got to juggle with time, work and the stress in me... to get a peaceful mind, is not easy at all. Don't you dare to think about money. It is 10 times harder. All the hard earn money and when you want to spend it you will think twice about it.

Happy Mother's Day!

Her life was never easy, not like the one I'm in. Her hands show the places she has been.The voice she gave us sounds like the horns of heaven.Her children are blessed with a mother of such worth, a woman who has seen the heavens and earth.

God, Thank you for this woman, the one you chose for me.

The one whom I love and care for gently. Without her, I won't be the person I am today.To the one and only one, MUM.... 

Mum, you're the greatest!! Thanks for all the love, encouragement and great cooking. You've done a great job bringing us up. We love you lots.

Have you vote?

I woke up to a beautiful Sunday afternoon *instead of morning* and please allowed me for that as I seldom able to wake up late on a SUNDAY! Peacefully lazy-ing and slacking around not knowing that the clock is actually showing 12.30pm. Look at my phone, reading those sms sending out by my friends asking whether have I voted? 

Yeah, I have voted. I have done my responsible as a "RAKYAT" to vote and choose wisely. The 01 vote is important to change the time of a decade. Well, let's wait and see the changes of it tonight.

We hope, we pray and we wish for a better future... a fairness to all. 

A relaxing Sunday~~

I can't recall back when is the last time I can actually stay at home on a Sunday and just lazy around. I have turn my work mode / button into a relax mode. Sometimes you just need to relax and enjoy. That's all you need to do. It seems easy but when you are busy, relax and enjoy seem so hard to you.  I have been spending my quality time with my family today. It was really an enjoyable moment if you shared it with your family. Nothing beats the ecstatic joy when you are with your family. They are the one that you will really want to treasure every moments with them.

Women is really a BITCH!

Sometimes, we women to no offence are really a bitch. When you are lonely, you wish that there is someone there for you. When you need someone, you hope that there is someone there for you. And when you have someone there for you, you will still continue to flirt and search around with a hope that there is always some one better. In a nutshell, you just need the attention. An attention seeker! 

But when you have the attention that is needed, you will always turn around and say F**K YOU and I am getting myself a life to goes on. Now many people will start wonder, are you actually playing a person's feeling? For me, I seriously do not think so. It is women nature to become an attention seeker. 

Therefore, in between the inter junction many people will get hurt and probably in the end you will just end up with nothing. That's the realistic of LIFE!

 

A small note of Thank YOU!

A thank you note from my clients after a successful event. The feelings when receiving it from them is just a sense of satisfaction as at the end of the day, you know they recognise you for the hospitality and the hard work you have thrown to them. Though, we face many problems but nothing beats the ecstatic joy for a successful function.

2013...

My first ever post for the year 2013 and with just a blink it is actually the month of March already. I have been missing out for the first two months. 2013 was not a real good kick start with the dismiss of my beloved  late grandma. Everything has been a pain for me. Now that she is gone, everything seems so different each time I back to the home town, the place that I once called home during my childhood. 

Had a very slow kick start for the first month of 2013 and everything seems not in place. It took me awhile to actually step out and realise that I need to move on. A slow month of January and generally its just another normal days to go through. Being stacked up with works given me the emphasize time to forget the sad moments and just concentrate on work. As the time pass, I had been or turned into a workaholic. Not to sure whether it is a good sign or not, but at least for this moment I know that I am still loving my work. Mind you, is my work...and not the working place. 

Come February, it is no other than the Chinese New Year. A month where every ones are busy cleaning, shopping, buying and the list goes on. I have a very simple celebration this year and not much of visiting. This year new year to me is like a relax and ease my mind week. All I do is just sleep, rest and eat. I do enjoy my times but deep down inside me...I knew that everything is different for this year new year. 

Anyway, March has began and is gonna be a brand new month. Hopefully I will be able to blog more as the times comes. 

Till then, let's the pictures do the talking.....

The real peach blossom plant 

"Kung Ming" lantern ahead... Have more wishes. 

My all times favourite, buddy...

2nd Day of CNY at my grandpa's place. Grandma will always be with us..

To mark the start for the Year of Snake...

The "LAM's FAMILY" 

CNY is all about prayers for this year..

The trance of Monkey GOD..

Pai Ti Kong at Debbie's place.. True blood of Peranakan "Hokkien" prayers..

With my cranko sister, jie jie Debbie. 

With Mum at Ramada..